The Best Sex Toys for Men

Men Have More Sex Toy Options Than They Realize — Here's the Proof

October 18, 2023

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There's never been a better time to own a male sex toy.

We're living and fornicating in a day and age where new research and developments are letting sex toy creators build a better world for our future orgasms.

As technology continues to improve our lives, it's also being featured in the latest sex devices we are able to bring into the bedroom (or use for our own personal pleasure). To put it into perspective, think about the cell phone you owned years ago.

So many technological features and functionalities have evolved over time, and your phone isn't the only device that's been reaping the benefits. The sex toy market has been tapping into the latest trends in tech to invent better ways to get people off. Is this news to you? Well, prepare to have your mind blown.

Think Fleshlights molded after your favorite porn star, masturbation devices that capture the sensations of oral and vaginal sex simultaneously and remote-controlled anal plugs for your easiest prostate orgasm ever. What a time to be alive!

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Whether you're a first time buyer of adult toys or a seasoned sex toy user, there's something new and noteworthy on this list of sex toys that's sure to pique your interest. Here are the latest and greatest sex toys for men to improve your sex life, push your boundaries and heighten your sexual pleasure.

The Best Sex Toys for Guys, by Category

Best Male Masturbators

These are the sex toys you want if you’re looking for an easy experience without having to find an outlet to plug something into. They’re your basic stroker toys that you could theoretically keep using until you die — while regularly washing them, of course. Regardless of how the world of sex toys is changing with technology, it’s nice to know that toys like these still exist.

Fleshlight Flight Pilot

Fleshlights really are the first name in male sex toys, and the Flight Pilot model is a great option for guys looking for some on-the-go pleasure. It features an extra tight fit for increased intensity, and a compact case so you can stow it in your luggage without any trouble.

$54.95 at Amazon.com

Tenga Deep Throat Onacup

A lot of design went into this option, and using it, it’s not hard to see that. The product boasts incredible suction technology thanks to an airhole at the end that creates a “vacuum sensation,” as well as a special insertion mechanism for a “smooth but tight entry.” The one drawback? It’s not designed to be cleaned out, so use a condom if you do plan to re-use it.

$14.99 at Lovehoney.com

Arcwave Ion Pleasure Air Smart Silence Male Masturbator

Made to target the super-sensitive nerves in the frenulum, the Acrwave Ion uses pulsing air for contact-free stimulation and it includes eight different intensity settings. Waterproof, rechargeable, and easy to clean, it is best used with a high-quality water-based lubricant.

$199 at Lovehoney.com

Fleshlight Porn Star

Lots of different sex toy manufacturers will try to sell you toys based off a specific porn star’s orifices, but opting for one of Fleshlight’s porn star models means two things: You are getting a top-of-the-line toy from a brand you can trust, and you also get to have your pick from among what feels like half the porn industry’s biggest names. Think names like Riley Reid, Elsa Jean, Lisa Ann, Janice Griffith, Asa Akira, and on, and on, and on.

$79.95 at Fleshlight.com

Sasha Grey Deep Throat Pocket Pal

Why go for the rest when you can go for the best? While Sasha Grey has long since retired from the adult industry, her spirit (and other naughty bits) live on in toy form. These guys took a real-life mold of Grey’s mouth and built a sex toy around the part many, many guys wish they could’ve experienced firsthand.

$29.99 at AdamEve.com

Adam's Stroker Trio

Your masturbation experience should leave you feeling exhausted, as well as taken care of. Adam & Eve toys take care of the latter by supplying guys with the stroker trio. A butt, mouth and vagina combination all for you! It’s like a party where everyone’s invited … and they all want to get on your penis. It’s the ultimate combo for guys who don’t know what they like most, but just love getting off.

$26.97 at Amazon.com

TooTimid Stamina Trainer Penis Massager

If you want to make your solo sessions more intense (and train yourself to last longer), this new penis massager from Too Timid helps achieve both. Made out of soft silicone, the toy features 10 vibration settings, stimulating the most sensitive part of your member. Practice makes perfect.

$49.95 at TooTimid.com

Tenga 3D Spiral Textured Male Masturbator

If a traditional Fleshlight’s too rigid for your tastes, you can recreate some of the magic with the much more flexible Tenga 3D Spiral stroker. Offering both textured and smooth options — simply flip it inside out to switch from one to the other — this cool-looking toy from Tenga is a versatile option that lots of guys love.

$29.01 at Amazon.com

Tenga Easy Beat Egg Masturbator

The Tenga Egg is unassuming at first glance, taking its shape from its namesake. However, when you pop that sucker open and feel around, a whole world opens up. On the inside of the super-stretchable elastomer body is a soft, supple interior that stretches over the member to provide an experience you’ve never felt before. No one will get mad if you finish early.

$35 for 6 at Amazon.com

Fleshlight Motion on a Mission

Masturbating can be a lot of fun, but jerking off into a stroker toy won’t hold a candle to a more active kind of penetration for some guys. If that’s you, the Motion on a Mission is the perfect way to secure your Fleshlight, and give your next solo time session a distinct Missionary position feel.

$139.99 at Amazon.com

Best Prostate Massagers & Anal Sex Toys for Men

These toys utilize the underrated parts of the male body that most dudes don’t really think about when shopping for sex toys.

Whether you’re going for the prostate or the nipples, these sex toys bypass the penis, opening a door for a whole new type of orgasm for men.

LELO Hugo

Use this high-tech toy for a more sophisticated approach to prostate stimulation. The Hugo features SenseMotion technology with two different patterns to explore, which you won't have to worry about adjusting manually thanks to its handy remote control. Use Hugo solo, or hand the remote over to your partner to have them join in on the fun. Plus, it charges via USB plug, so you'll never have to worry about running out of batteries.

$186.15 at LELO.com

Aneros Helix Trident Prostate Massager

If you've never tried a prostate massager before, there's no better time to invest in one from Aneros. It uses something called “Multi-Axial Motion Architecture” to vibrate along different axes within the anus. Sure, it looks a bit intimidating, but prostate massagers are going mainstream, and this one is worth a try.

$55 at Aneros.com

Nexus Revo Stealth Remote Control Rotating Silicone Prostate Massager

This offering from Nexus offers maximum versatility as well as maximum pleasure. You can use it internally as a prostate massager, with up to 6 modes of vibration and 2 bidirectional internal rotation speeds, all while pleasuring your perineum from up to 15 meters away courtesy of its rechargeable remote control. As an added bonus, it's fully waterproof, meaning you can take this into the shower or bath tub with a USB-powered, easy rechargeable battery.

$224.99 at Lovehoney.com

Mood Naughty 2

When hunting for butt toys that’ll pack a punch, you always need to keep the size and material in mind to ensure an easy and comfortable experience. The Mood Naughty 2 is made from ultra-smooth silicone, and is only 6” in length with a 1.5” bulbous head that’ll target your prostate. Use it to experience an orgasm you never thought was possible for a dude.

$27.65 at JackAndJillAdult.com

Rimmers Model Curved Rimming Plug

If you're ready to take your own anal play to the next level, look no further than the new line of easy to use anal plugs from Rimmers. Butt plugs aren't for everyone, but if you've never used a butt plug, you should try one before you dismiss an entire category of sex toys.

$49.70 at Amazon.com

Best Cock Rings & Ball Spreaders

Cock and penis rings are classic, discreet male toys that not only increase your pleasure, but can prolong and intensify your erection, too. That means your partner can benefit in a big way from these bad boys.

Svakom Tyler

If you’re looking for a cock ring that’ll pleasure your partner while it works its magic on you, the Svakom Tyler is a great option. Unlike many other vibrating cock rings, the Tyler is one you charge rather than one that requires batteries, meaning it’s more lightweight and powerful than the competition. It’s made from medical-grade silicone, and yes, it will go to town on your partner’s clitoris while you’re focused on penetration.

$88 at Svakom.com

RingO's Penis Ring

The RingO’s Penis Ring is a great starter ring for guys with no previous cock ring experience. It's simple to use (no bells and whistles), made of a stretchy, hypoallergenic silicone, and it shouldn't present you with any difficulties in terms of putting it on (or taking if off). While it's small, it'll be able to fit guys with a lot of girth, so bigger guys needn't worry about that.

$2.99 at ScreamingO.com

RingO Erection Rings

Looking to up the ante ever so slightly on your cock ring experience? Look no further than the RingO three-pack of erection rings. Each ring is a slightly different size, and each size performs a different function. There's a thicker, harder ring that can also stimulate your partner’s clitoris while delaying your orgasm. The smallest of the three rings is the firmest to help get you an extra tight fit to really increase your pleasure, while the largest ring is great for guys with a wider girth.

$8.99 at ScreamingO.com

Adam & Eve Silicone Ball Spreader

Contrary to popular belief, a sex toy doesn't have to be expensive (or even technologically advanced) to be effective, and this ball spreader from Adam & Eve proves that point. It's easy to put on thanks to the stretchy silicone, and promises to deliver increased pleasure and a longer lasting erection, making it a win for your partner, too.

$10.99 at AdamEve.com

Couple's Enhancer Ring

Adam & Eve’s Couple's Enhancer Ring is meant for complete outer stimulation. Basically, the soft jelly material works like a holster for the tiny watch battery-operated vibe attached to the one loop (which you get free with the toy). The one ring wraps around the balls, causing slight constriction of blood flow, enabling you to stay hard for a long, long time. The other loop pushes the vibrator on your partner, so she can be stimulated while you move together. This is a super-easy and effective toy to use together.

$39.99 at AdamEve.com

Lover’s Cage

Depending on how kinky you are, maybe a simple cock ring just doesn’t cut it for you. Maybe you want a toy that puts the “trap” in “contraption” — if so, the Lover’s Cage might be perfect for you, as it wraps your testicles and the bulk of your shaft up in a lightweight, flexible structure made of rubber. Bonus? There’s a clit-tickling vibe at the top, too.

$24.99 at AdamEve.com

Double Penetrator Ultimate Penis Ring

If you’ve always wanted to double penetrate your partner, but just can’t find a reliable friend to play, opt for this toy instead. The cock ring will keep you nice and hard, while the attached dildo slides into her butt. It’s like killing two birds with one sexy stone. A vibrating bullet also moves against the two of you as she’s taken to the wild world of DP.

$35.38 at Amazon.com

Best Sex Toys for Couples

Even with your own goal in mind, getting off can (and should) also be about getting someone else off at the same time. These are the toys for men to use when there’s another person in the equation.

Remote-controlled vibrators, pleasure boosters and a legit cock ring is how you take one of the finest solo activities out there to another level. As always, we suggest you talk to your partner before diving into any of these to make sure you know what they'd be into using.

Lovense Max 2

Does your sex toy really need to be Bluetooth compatible? Probably not, but if your partner doesn't live with you or travels frequently, investing in the Lovense Max 2 can help you two stay, uhh, connected while you're apart. Think of it as a great facilitator for long-distance relationships. As far as its inner workings, this toy's air pump design mimics the feel and flow of oral sex, and provides rumbly vibrations for added pleasure.

$99 at Lovense.com

KIIROO Pearl2 & Onyx2 Couples Set

This KIIROO couples set takes the concept of the long-distance Bluetooth sex toy and amps it up to the logical conclusion: two sex toys (one penetrating, and one penetrated) that are linked together. It transfers the actual sensation of thrusting in real time from one partner to the other, whether you’re 10 miles apart or 10,000. What was that they said about absence making the heart grow fonder? Maybe they knew about these toys...

$289 at Kiiroo.com

Adam's Extension

Maybe you don’t feel like your member is enough. If that's the case, Adam’s Extension is a great tool to use. If you don’t want to go the route of a penis pump, this shell provides you with an automatic extra two inches all around. Plus, it’s got all the ribbing features and whistles to drive your partner totally insane.

$19.99 at AdamEve.com

Lovense Lush3

The Lovense Lush 2 won’t technically pleasure you, too, but if you get off on pleasuring your partner, this toy absolutely caters to that desire. It’s an internal vibrator that uses Bluetooth technology so you can control every little vibration from your phone, whether you’re in bed together, out in public together or separated by thousands of miles. The toy’s app is also packed with cool functions like setting the vibrations to music, creating specific pattern presets and even using the toy as a wake-up alarm.

$119 at Lovense.com

Luna Beads by LELO

Imagine getting the vibration of a sex toy with your partner in real life. This is the ultimate accompaniment for a night in that truly benefits both of you. By slipping the beads in her vagina, the intense vibration gets her off while sending waves of pleasure to you as you thrust. Pro-tip: Ask her to put it in her butt, and you’ll be able to feel the vibration through the vaginal wall. Truly next level stuff, people.

$42 at Amazon.com

Advanced Sex Toys for Men

If you’re getting bored with the state of male sex toys as they are, you can invest in something that has a bit more of a kick to it. That’s where toys that are bigger and better than the last come in. These are the next sex toys taking the world by storm.

LELO F1S V2 Pleasure Console

Device-based toys are all the rage these days, but not all of them understand the proper way to cater towards the male audience — that is, until now. You truly haven't experienced full satisfaction until you've wrapped your member in LELO's latest masturbation toy. With a flexible sleeve meant for accommodating a penis of any shape or size, the F1S V2 is equipped with four program variations and 10 different sensitive sensors that, when structured through the LELO app, grants you the power to build up your orgasm exactly how you want it. We don't blame you if you never want to take it off.

$219 at LELO.com

Onyx+ Realm Edition

Watching porn is one thing, but pretending like you're right there in the scene? Welcome to the Onyx+ Realm Edition. This futuristic device features 10 contracting rings that can hit up to 140 strokes per minute. Its most special capability — to connect with 4,000 compatible X-rated movies — is a standout, and once you strap on those VR goggles to minimize distortion and give you a wide-view of your favorite adult stars, just follow their tagline: connect, climax, repeat.

$150 at Kiiroo.com

Virtual Mate

The Virtual Mate has a similar schtick to the Onyx+ Realm Edition, only this toy syncs up not with basic, run-of-the-mill pornography, but with VR sex games. That means not only is your stroker toy vibrating in sync with the onscreen action, you’re actually a part of the action. That’s about as intimate as it gets without an actual person there with you.

$169 at VirtualMate.com

Autoblow A.I.

The inventor of the Autoblow A.I., Brian Sloan, is something of a sexual mad scientist. This toy uses insane amounts of data and an internal computer to deliver porn-star-quality blowjobs without you having to move a muscle. You can program it in a number of different, fascinating ways and save your favorite blowjob patterns to experience again and again. The one drawback is it needs to be plugged in to function — but with a lengthy cord and a rock-solid experience, that might not bother you.

$199.95 at Autoblow.com

The Super Milker by Lovebotz

The ultimate toy for the lazy man, The Milker by Lovebotz does it all for you — like the Autoblow A.I., this will stroke and suck you (and milk you) without you having to do anything. Its two differently sized cylinders each feature a thin, flexible membrane to deliver you pleasure. It may cost you an arm and a leg, but if it can make you orgasm, maybe money can buy happiness.

$499.95 at LoveBotz.com

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